Obviously the list of things that change your life after having a baby is 10 miles long. But for the most part, they are also things that people have warned me of or that I have read about in baby books. You will always be tired, you may not be able to shower most days, you will go through 12 diapers a day, or that enjoyable Target trips will never be the same.
There are a few things that I didn't realize though, no matter how many books I read or people I have talked to. First, I never realized how much noise I make doing the most simple tasks. When Cole is sleeping and I am trying to get things done around the house, you better believe I am tip toeing around. But little did I know, everything is LOUD. Getting ice from the ice maker, putting dishes away, vacuuming, playing with the dogs, its impossible to stay quite.
Second, I will never be on time while toting around an infant. Just when you think you are going to leave, a poopy diaper happens or you can't find a pacifier. I have gotten a little better with starting my 'getting ready to leave' routine, but let me tell you, YOU BETTER BE ON YOUR GAME. Otherwise you will end up forgetting something.
So what is the big picture here?? Always keep an open mind, nothing will go as planned and instead of getting worked up about it, just go with it. No sense in stressing about things that I can't control.
Monday, July 8, 2013
Cole- 2 weeks (July 2, 2013)
Weight-Did not have any weight gain, still at 5 lb 15 oz
Health-Cole has something going on with his tummy. Not for sure if its reflux, but he screams bloody murder after most feedings (mostly afternoon and evening). Also has painful looking burps associated with it and he is very difficult to sooth. Seriously breaks our heart.
Sleep- Sleep is great at night, anywhere from 4-6 hours at a time. Sleeps little periods at a time during the day, not more than 1 1/2 hours at a time.
Social- Still getting daily visitors to love up on our little peanut. All our family and friends have been able to stop by.
Diet- Breastmilk- ALL.THE.TIME. I feel like he gets done eating, burps, and is rooting around for more. At night he has his last feeding around 11, then usually doesn't wake until around 4.
Cloths- Newborn cloths. Had to go buy some more because I couldn't keep up with washing his handful of newborn outfits. Still uses newborn diapers
Development- Beginning to folllow Ross and I's voice. Practicing tummy time and is very good at holding up his strong little head. He is always kicking during diaper changes and his arms are always flying all over the place. Hands are in his mouth when he gets hungry.
Crying-Only cries when reflux sets in after feedings. Sometimes it lasts 20 minutes, other times over an hour. Its the worst sound I have ever heard.
Likes-Loves getting his hair washed under the faucet. Also Likes walks in his stroller. Likes his vibrating chair. Dislikes being burped over the shoulder and diaper changes. Also is not a fan of being swaddled at night.
Cole- 1 week (June 25, 2013)
Our little prince is one week old today, I can barely believe it. It has been so fun getting to know his little personality, his likes and dislikes. We are very blessed with a healthy little man. Everyday I try to take it all in, enjoying every moment I can. I know this newborn stage is very short lived.
Weight- at his 4 day appointment he was 5 lb 15 oz, up from his hospital discharge weight of 5 lb 12 oz
Health- No problems, we think he may be coming down with reflux after eating though. His little hands and feet are shedding his 'protective skin'. Belly button and circumcision are healing well
Sleep- He has been a great sleeper, especially at night. Sleeps about 3-4 hours at a time. He doesn't like being swaddled to tight though and definitely doesn't like his arms in the swaddle.
Social- Little man has had non stop visitors. Aunt Jojo, Aunt Paige and Grandma and Grandpa Stewart are here in town from MN.
Diet- Breastmilk. Didn't latch on to the right at first, but is doing great now. A great eater and always hungry. Ready to eat at least every 2 hours during the day.
Cloths- Swimming in his newborn cloths and wearing newborn diapers
Development- Cole is a strong little guy. He can pull his head up on his own and has a strong kick. Passed his hearing test, bilirubin test and oxygen sat tests before leaving the hospital.
Crying-Unfortunately we hear a lot of crying associated with what we think is reflux. Otherwise he just fusses when he is hungry
Likes- Likes to have his hands up by his face all the time, especially when sleeping.
Milestone- Slept in his crib in his nursery since we got home from the hospital. Not sure if that's a milestone for him or us.
Wednesday, July 3, 2013
Life Lately
Well, we have made it two weeks. The first week was more adjusting to the reality that there is an infant in our house that eats every hour (or at least it felt that way), sleeps all the time, and is always awake when we want to sit down to dinner. But, every time I laid eyes on Cole, I fell in love with him more and more. His funny little facial expressions when he sleeps, his skinny little appendages, that full head of dark hair, and of course those big dark eyes (look kinda blue now, but will probably change). I loved every second of that first week. It is crazy to think I am not pregnant anymore, and I do miss my baby bump. But, I love having my little Cole bear here.
Then came the second week. Cole started getting very upset after feedings, especially in the evening, and started burping and refluxing. It hurts him so bad, the look on his face when that acid comes up, brings tears to my eyes every time. And the cry, he makes the worst bone chilling scream when it is happening. Sometimes he can be soothed after 20 minutes, sometimes its over an hour. I just feel so helpless, watching this tiny little person suffer. We have gone to the pediatrician and he has started him on Omeprazole and Culturelle. The only bad part is the medication takes up to a week to start working, so until then, with each feeding, we don't know if his reflux is going to flare up.
So, needless to say, I have been a little preoccupied. Not necessarily physically, because Ross is AWESOME at soothing him day or night when I break down because my heart is hurting for my little man. But more emotionally and mentally, I am constantly worried and reading way to much on the internet. Ross has banned me from Google.
So, I do have the first 2 week updates and his birth story coming, hopefully by this weekend. It's just a matter of transferring it from my journal to the computer. But here is a little Cole in the mean time. SERIOUSLY, IN LOVE WITH THIS LITTLE MAN.
Then came the second week. Cole started getting very upset after feedings, especially in the evening, and started burping and refluxing. It hurts him so bad, the look on his face when that acid comes up, brings tears to my eyes every time. And the cry, he makes the worst bone chilling scream when it is happening. Sometimes he can be soothed after 20 minutes, sometimes its over an hour. I just feel so helpless, watching this tiny little person suffer. We have gone to the pediatrician and he has started him on Omeprazole and Culturelle. The only bad part is the medication takes up to a week to start working, so until then, with each feeding, we don't know if his reflux is going to flare up.
So, needless to say, I have been a little preoccupied. Not necessarily physically, because Ross is AWESOME at soothing him day or night when I break down because my heart is hurting for my little man. But more emotionally and mentally, I am constantly worried and reading way to much on the internet. Ross has banned me from Google.
So, I do have the first 2 week updates and his birth story coming, hopefully by this weekend. It's just a matter of transferring it from my journal to the computer. But here is a little Cole in the mean time. SERIOUSLY, IN LOVE WITH THIS LITTLE MAN.
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